To The Top!

Sorry but I’m not interested,” he politely said.

I pressured him on it until he said something that totally confused me.  He told me that he *’already made it to the top’*.

I was familiar with his current company and looked at his resume again. He wasn’t anywhere near the top.  He would have needed a telescope to see the top.  He wasn’t even a manager yet.

He explained to me that “making it to the top” for him meant *he loved the exact work he did each day, he loved his company, he was treated fairly and with respect, he made enough money to be comfortable, he had excellent benefits, he had flexibility, and most importantly to him, he’s never missed a single Little League game, dance recital, parent-teacher conference, anniversary, birthday, or any family event.*

He knew what taking the next step in his career meant.  More time, travel, and sacrifice. “Not worth it,” he said.

The definition and priorities of “Making it to the Top” may not be the same for all. It is not what society expects of you, but more of what you expect from yourself.

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About asarpota

Like to fly, but at the same time, quite on the ground, and do tend to be realistic. Very passionate about what I believe in and do, no patience with idiots, not a perfectionist, but trying to come close to it.... Not a nerd btw, value my friends very much, can criticize and have the b***s to take it on my chin. A spade is a spade!!!
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